Archive for June, 2010

I recently have felt depleted and have found myself wondering what I can change in my life to feel more fulfilled.  It is very easy for me to tell anyone off the street what it is I need to feel good and strong and happy.  The problem is that I didn’t know how to make room in my life.  I love being a mom and a wife.  I just forgot how to be just Heather.  How silly does that sound?  I guess it is not that silly because I know it has happened to many moms.  Many types of caregivers give and give until one day they look up and don’t recognize themselves in the mirror.  Scary isn’t it?  Have you found yourself in this position?  I guess recognizing the emptiness is the first step…right?

Life is a journey…no one ever said you had to have it all figured out before you reach the destination.  Why do we still feel that we should?  Are we so afraid to admit to others that we really don’t have it all together all the time?

My hopes of sharing and being completely honest with myself and the people that read my blog that I can touch others that are probably going through similar situations.  I must say I have almost everything I could ever want in life…I just need to take care of me more.  I have found that when I have a shower, shaved legs and a fresh face of make-up on I am a better mom.  My attitude is better..I smile more and I have more confidence.  I feel so much better when I eat nutritiously and regularly.  My energy is more constant and I don’t have near as many highs and lows.  My body is desperately craving exercise.  I hardly ever sit down..yet I need core strength training, weight loss and toning. 

 In knowing all of this, I am going to make some slight changes to my life.  For starters, I am going to shower when the baby takes his nap.   No matter how much laundry or dishes I could be cleaning.   Secondly,  I started nighttime jogging.  As soon as the children go to bed.  It takes priority over anything else.  It helped clear my mind, recharge my batteries, time in prayer and meditation, time for processing the day and much more.  I instantly felt empowered.  I am amazed what a difference so far these changes have made in my life.  My question to my readers is who is going to join me in this journey?  The journey of taking care of you.  It may be as simple as sitting down to drink a cup of coffee.  I would love to hear from you.  I would love to hear how you find time to  feel like you in the midst of being a mom 24/7.   Hopefully we can join together so we don’t feel so alone.

It’s just little old me waking up and starting to feel alive and inspired again.
It  is so ironic that I finally, this morning, felt like putting my thoughts into words to share my ideas on facing challenges; I came across so many road blocks in order to begin blogging.

God definitely has a sense of humor.  My topic is approaching life’s challenges…I finally had a moment of peace and all the stars were in line.  I sat down and couldn’t pull up my site for a few minutes. I have to admit, I wanted to scream! Why does everything have to be so hard and complicated?  Instead, I took a deep breath and laughed. Then I was ready to log on and for a moment couldn’t quite remember my password.  It really has been that long.

Life has been crazy and challenging lately.  I have felt a little stuck, like my shift button on my laptop that I spilled half the bottle of my son’s antibiotics on.  To be thoroughly honest I didn’t feel like putting it into words and making it real.  I haven’t been getting much sleep lately and it is so hard to be inspired when you are sooo tired.  I am shaking it off and taking my own advice.  Which leads us into today’s topic.

Have you ever seen a child learn to walk?  Have you seen how many times they fall down and get right back up again?  Have you seen the determination in their eyes as they take one, two, three steps all by themselves?  It is amazing!  It puts life into perspective very quickly.  I wonder… what if we approached life’s challenges the way that a toddler learns how to walk? Would we be more successful?  I personally believe we would accomplish our goals so much more efficiently and effectively if we were so determined.  A small child breaks it into stages…rolling over, sitting up, rocking on the knees, crawling, pulling up and standing around furniture, and then leading to taking that first step that will change their life.  If we simplified our mountains and broke them into small pieces to bite off and chew we probably would get a lot more accomplished.

So, my hope for anyone that reads this is that you approach your mountains from a child’s perspective and when you fall down you get right back up again.